A city as grand and small as Cebu has never been safer with the pre-marital sex topic tagged as the “One Night Stand”. With its main principle, which is to literally screw someone and to satisfy your instinctual desire for sexual contact, its idea and practice has spread as fast as an airborne disease could ever scatter all throughout even towards the outskirts of the city. Despite the fact that the only things you can exchange through a one night stand are body fluids rather than the personal story of your evening partner, can’t we really cling to the idea of a possibility of starting something beyond bodily desires from a one night stand, a friendship maybe or even better our perfect match? Can the thirst of sexual desire also quench every girl’s yearning for a meaningful relationship? 

Although most people (men LOL) might’ve overlooked the idea of finding someone special through this type of hook up, we women had always been emotionally attached that we draw all our decisions based on our emotions and instincts. Therefore, it is not our nature to randomly choose a guy across the dance floor and bring him home just because our G-spot says so. There has always been an emotional background or some tinge of instinctual act that we commit prior choosing the guy whom we could screw.  So, are we really hoping subconsciously that we are sleeping right next to a guy to whom we consider in having a deeper relationship with? And yes, deep down we are (given the fact, that we were not drunk or with shrouded judgment when going out with the guy).


Yet as we face the light of the early dawn and we begin to realize as we wake up with a stranger next to us, picking up a knight in shining armor earlier that night is as fast as how we women can spot traits of obnoxiousness that turns Mr. Right Guy that evening into Mr. Wrong Guy in the morning. As it is inevitable that we girls invest emotionally on all things, I guess it would be better to put in ourselves on the personal story of a guy prior dealing with their body fluids.